February 14th, 2009 
Hey guys, well as I said in the last post I made. I haven’t been able to keep up on posting much new blog posts. I explained the main reasons for this in the last post and one of those was simply stated as personal reasons. Well, I said that I would let you guys know what was going on…so I am.
My wife left me early last week, we’ve been having marital problems for quite some time now. I really don’t want to get into a ton of the details, but, honestly I think it may be for the best. I just don’t see us going in the same direction in life anymore. I have a ton of stuff I’d like to accomplish, and she just seems to want to coast through life as easily as possible.
Anyways, I’m still hoping however that we can get some more counseling (been 3 times now), and actually see some changes, that is of course if she is even willing. She’s pretty set on getting the dissolution which as I said I think I agree with her on it, but, hopefully we can still try to work on it afterwards if she’s willing.
I don’t believe in Divorce as a Christian, but I also don’t believe staying in a relationship that causes you to sin all the time anyways by screaming, hateful remarks, swearing at each other, etc.
Also, I’m not going to be able to post very consistently while all of this is going on, so I’ll be taking on some guest posts. If you would like to write a guest post for this blog (free backlink to your site of course) please shoot it over to derek [at] clickconsultants [dot] com. I won’t post crap on this blog, so unless you’re willing to actually take the time and write something worthwhile for my readers don’t bother sending it.
The guest posts do not have to be about affiliate marketing, I’m willing to take anything related to making money online, internet marketing, social media, etc. So help me out and shoot over an article or two and enjoy a free backlink or two! 
Thanks everyone for the support you’ve shown!
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Happy Valentines day!…. :S
Yeah right…that’s what I thought, although I guess I’ve known it was coming for a while, we’ve both been pretty unhappy lately, hopefully we can fix it with some counseling later on down the road.
Do whatever you feel is right for both of you, hope it gets resolved. You have, and are still making a commitment to trying to make it work which is good with the counseling visits. Wish the best for you.
Yeah for sure Wes and thanks for the encouragement, I’m definitely still willing to work on the marriage after a little while…I have to be completely honest that at this current moment I don’t want to do counseling or anything, I just need a month to myself to kinda assess things and let us both kinda chill.
I am truly sorry for what’s happening to you, but if you think that is the right thing to do – that’s fine. However, an advice from me – don’t ever post about what you didn’t like in your wife (e.g like you did here, saying that she was a kind of a drawback in your achievements in life), because you may both later change your minds and come back together. If she had read this post, it can only cause you extra problems and arguments.
Ehh I wasn’t really trying to say anything bad about her. I was just stating that currently we are both heading in complete opposite directions in life and unless we agree on some stuff I can’t see it working. Wasn’t trying to really dog her or anything.
Sorry to hear this man. I hope all gets sorted out in an amicable matter.
Sorry to hear this. My lil brother is going through the same thing, so I know how tough this can be. Bro, you’ve got my #, so if you need to chat, don’t hesitate to give me a ring. My prayers are with you.
Tim
Yeah Tim, you’re still suppose to call me to talk about some personal stuff
So the same goes for you and thanks for letting me know you’re there!
You’re right, I haven’t forgot.
That situation looks like it will be all settled, so next time we talk, hopefully it’ll be to tell ya about how it’s all worked out.
I’ll be praying for you, bro. I’m sorry to hear all this because of the pain it causes.
Sorry to hear you’re in such a pain right now. Divorce is always a hard thing to come through. Hope you’ll resolve everything and you both’ll be happy eventually
Good luck man! hopefully everything works out for the best.
Divorce is real.. even if you don’t believe in it.. and even if you’re a Christian. No one is left out.
Just my thoughts…I’ve been a reader for a while.. but felt like commenting.. keep focused on the future.
I hope everything works out for both of you.
Sorry to hear about it. But like you said, it’s probably for the best. Don’t worry, this will pass.
Good luck to you buddy and I hope for the best!
-Mike
I sent you a guest post to help you out man.
Hey Bro! I’m really sorry to hear about that!
I’ll be praying for ya!
~Jony
Hey Derek. You know I’ve got your back in anything you do. I’m shooting you a guest post (or two/three) in the next couple days. And I’m just an email/im away if you ever need anything.
Mike
Good luck Derek. I wish you all the best my man. I have been through it and came out a better man.
There’s a song called “thank God for unanswered prayers” that I get now. I am successfully in my second marriage to my HS girlfriend and we have a great daughter that is 3. My 11 year old has some faced some challenges with the divorce though.
Stick with it like you did Aff Mkt but if by chance it doesn’t workout, and it might not, it truly is not the end.
We can talk anytime you need to bro.
Corey (Rideswitch)
Sorry to hear Derek.
It’s a trying time, but it does get better.
Let me know if there’s anything I can do to help.
I am so sorry to hear this. I hope everything works out. Good Luck!